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Nine Ways to Make Your Ex Hate You

  • Posted on July 2, 2009 at 10:40 pm

Are you thinking of ways to win back your ex? Take care not to make things worse, they might run for the door instead of falling back into your arms. Here are things that you can do to make them hate you more.

Call them several times a day. This will bug them like crazy and may cause them to block your number. You can always get more numbers, though. Disposable phones and using friends cell phones are easy ways to get this done.

Keep writing them and letting them know how much you miss them. Letters, Emails, and Text Messages can hit them from several directions. Leave notes on their windshield. This is a great way to get their attention (and wrath).

Awaken memories of past promises. Just because you are no longer together doesnt mean you cant hold them to it. It just probably slipped their minds. Remind them regularly that it wasn’t a bad idea to break up with you.

Follow them around; let them know you are everywhere. Watch them like a hawk. Wear a silly grin if they see you coming. That will lead them to think you have lost your mind and leave them frightened. Expect a restraining order on the way.

Bug their friends and get updates about where they plan to hang out and be there all the time. They will probably avoid you too like the plague. Give the current flame a call and tell them that your ex is still in love with and you are determined to get your ex back. Harassing them both would only strengthen their relationship and dislike you more.

Call their parents and try to be their parents best friend. You will only get the parents mad at you as well or drive a wedge between your ex and his parents. Either way, you have given your ex more reason to hate you.

Try dating their best friend. Your efforts to make them jealous may end up ruining another of their relationships. Sooner or later the best friend will realize that you are just using them and you will be alone again.

Call their workplace and ask about him or ask to talk to him. That will be a great way to get your ex back hating you, especially if it costs them their job.

You can still make your ex love you again but you need some good advice on how to do it right. Get professional help or talk to people who have good long lasting relationships with their partner. Listen to your heart if you want to get your ex back. Make sure you are careful to think things through before you act on your plans. Not everything you do can make them love you again.

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Grief- What Can Be Done About It?

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 7:36 pm

Grief can be overwhelming. A death, separation of loved one, etc. can cause tremendous grief. This kind of grief refuses to get treated for a long period. People say that time is a great healer, but it is also true that the more time passes, the more time you have to grieve. Some time back I used to visit web pages set up by cancer patients. Most of them were young children who were suffering from leukemia. The parents used to write in the pages and share their agony. I recollect a father whose son died when he was very young. This man had uncontrollable grief and no amount of talk could help him. Simply believing that his child has now become a star in the sky did not help him.

Many deaths took place when I was active with those web pages. I learnt a lot during that period. The main lesson was that grief is not logical. To die is certain and we all know that but when somebody very dear to us dies, no amount of logic helps. One must shed tears to heal.

I have interacted with many persons with broken relationships on message boards. I observed that most of these people were ok for some days but went back to depression and pain soon. You could not believe that a person, who was advising others a few days back, has himself or herself broken down again. This was cyclic in many people. Again I learnt a lesson that grief and bitterness of having been left by a loved one do not go away soon. The inner mind carries all emotions that defy any logic that the outer mind proposes.

What is the remedy? I have found that another who is also grieving best understands a person who is grieving. If a grieving person talks to a healthy individual, no amount of interaction helps. But if he/she talks to someone who is also facing grief, understanding is very fast.

The author likes to write text messages and advises for internet and social networking content like twitter backgrounds and myspace graphics. He also writes quizzes on subjects like career, personality, etc.

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