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Songs about a dad never being there for their daughter or son?

  • Posted on January 3, 2011 at 1:21 pm

I’m a teenage girl who has never known her father, I’ve heard from him by family but, never have talked to him or seen him. I really don’t know what to feel towards him. If I should feel hate or feel pitty for my self?…anyways, I only know of 2 songs about this situation. They are: Confesions Of a Daughter to father and Daddy’s little girl . SO I’m really into music. It’s my addiction and i”m supposed to turn in an assigment about my life and I need songs concerning this issue…so please help. Any genre of music is okay, just as long as it’s meaning of a father and their children or something like that…

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Why would DC choose to tarnish their reputation by creating a lesbian character? It disgusts me.?

  • Posted on December 27, 2010 at 11:20 am

Being an avid comic book reader, I wonder what other superheroins will become lesbians? This world is going to hell when a heroin that girls will look up to turns out to be a lesbian. I do not want my daughter raised thinking that being a lesbian is okay and normal, because it isn’t. Read the story of Sodom and Gomorroah, why did God destroy those towns, because of the spirit od homosexuality, The book of Romans, condemns homosexuality,Deuteronomy condemns homosexuality. Wake up people, this is not normal.

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my son hates his father & won’t let him see grandchildren..my daughter and other son are upset with their brot?

  • Posted on November 7, 2010 at 10:17 pm

my oldest son who hates his father lived with him;the other two with me.His father is a functional alcoholic and according to my son (I agree) he pouts and plays mental games with his grandchildren (ages 5,1)my daughter and other son think he should bury the hatchet and let him see his grandchildren.Their feelings on the subject are so strong that my daughter is thinking of telling her brother.He has no idea she feels this way.My daughters’s husband also feels the same.I feel it’s his desion and we need to stay out of it.

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Why can’t his parents get it in their thick skulls damn it!?

  • Posted on October 18, 2010 at 10:24 am

I have generalized anxiety disorder. I also have emetophobia and depression. Each one of these things FUELS one or both of the other 2.
(use Google or Wikipedia if you don’t know what any of these are.)

So, the problem i am facing is, my fiance’s parents are giving him shit, telling him to ‘get rid of her(me)’ that all i am doing is using him and i am a lazy good for nothing.

The reality is, i panic, a lot. I can’t go to public places very often because of this. i literally can’t breathe and can’t stand up for very long. yes this is serious Yes i have been to a DR. They want to put me on xanax. a highly addictive narcotic.

I, of course, refused that treatment because i have personally known people that have taken Xanax either for a short period, or a long period of time and have had the following:

1.) Major life changes, not always for the better. Mostly personality. The drug seems to make them a completely different person. A lady i knew in my old neighborhood was on xanax for 15 years. before she got on xanax things were going alright (she had mild anxiety, couldn’t ride in a car and became agoraphobic.) till her husband interjected and asked her to go get help. years later, he ended up leaving her several times because “she just wasn’t the same person she used to be… i don’t now what happened (it was the drugs)” He later committed suicide. Some more years later, the same lady ran into financial problems, and was forced to come off her high-dose of xanax too quickly. she had a nervous breakdown and nearly died of heart problems in a rehabilitation facility. I was there at her home with her daughter the day she came home. She was a completely different person. there was a different look in her eyes. She was off the xanax. Her daughter even looked at me and said quietly “She doesn’t look ‘ok’…” The lady then started going off about how her daughter and i had let the house ‘go’ (as in, it was not clean according to her standards, which, it was actually worse before she left. in an effort to make her feel better and have a somewhat different environment when she got home from rehab, i helped her daughter clean up the house and re-arrange and re-decorate.) and cleaning things out of the refrigerator, just random things. yelling, cussing, so on…

I would have never imagined her to be like this, and i had never seen her like this before. it was scary. so i left there, moved away. (not because of her, just because i had to)

now, her daughter tells me frequently that her mother has changed so much. she hates everything and everyone and she doesn’t ever want to be left alone. She is scared to say it, but she almost wants her back on those terrible drugs.

2.) Xanax can kill you if you do not follow directions and abuse it, like 40% of the people who have the prescription for it.

3.) it obviously does not ‘cure’ what ever mental ailment is burdening you. it only masks it for a short while until your body becomes immune to it, causing your DR to raise the dosage….you can see where this is going.

you’re supposed to have therapy of some sort along with these medications to aid in ‘recovery’ That costs money and lots of it. I don’t blame them, i would want to get paid to hear people talk about their lives and help them find a way to solve their problems. The only real problem is the money. I can fight through claustrophobia and sit in a session with a therapist, but i can’t pay for it. Why?

I love to work. I love to help people. i love helping people find solutions to their problems and making them happy. it makes me feel great knowing i have helped someone.

but for 4 years now, i have helped no one. I cannot work around people. soon as someone talks to me, i start feeling it in my throat, my throat closes up and i can’t speak. my chest gets tight and my stomach starts to churn. then i feel immediately as if i will vomit.

how is that going to work at a customer service job? or any job for that matter? Constantly having to excuse myself from work because i am not sure if i am going to throw up or have diarrhea, or just not be able to breathe very well. I know there are jobs that don’t require much customer interaction, i just haven’t found it yet. I have also looked into working from home, which, that’s a complete joke. You can’t work from home unless you have money to start with.

Anyways. my fiance’s parents think i am faking this, and i am a complete joke between them all. (not my fiance)

my question for them is:

Why would i go out of my way to make mine and my future husbands life a miserable hell? (me not working = financial problems = hell.)
Why would i ‘fake’ something like this for 4 FUC KING YEARS, WASTE MY LIFE AND WASTE EVERYONE’S’ TIME.

there is help out there, i just haven’t found it.

any ideas yahoo answers?

sorry so long. If you didn’t read it, don’t reply please. thanks.
Also, i’d like to add that i have taken one xanax before. a .25 mg. the next 6 – 8 hours i felt as if i had no muscles and i was so tired i couldn’t see straight. I need to be able to work in order to pay all the medical bills i am about to endure. Hopefully the next time i go they will prescribe me something else. The last DR insisted on xanax and re-assured me that if i followed directions, nothing bad would happen, and if it did, to let her know.

however, that’s not the point. Xanax really, truly is a life altering drug. I don’t want to be healed if i am going to be a completely different person.
And yes, my fiance loves me, understands me and is here for me. He says he doesn’t care what they say but it gets him soooo mad. I think we will just move to canada. I’ll wait 3 more years (to be a citizen) and have it all taken care of free. WTG OBAMACARE!

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Given how they abuse their positions, how can Cops expect the respect of THE PEOPLE or themselves?

  • Posted on October 14, 2010 at 4:33 pm

Yesterday, after being held in jail for seven hours for committing the “crime” of being rear-ended by a cop’s daughter, I noticed a poster handing in the police station with a glorified picture of a police officer and the word “respect” written accost it.

Given how often and how egregiously police officers abuse their positions, lie, and generally prey upon the American citizens they swore to protect, they can expect any respect either from the American public or even from themselves when they look in the mirror (that’s assuming that they still can look in the mirror).

Specifically, I was rear-ended by the seventeen year old female offspring of a Passaic (NJ) cop while waiting at a red light in Wayne, NJ.

Immediately after the accident occurred, the girl began telling anyone who’d listen that she was the daughter of a cop (something her father likely trained her to do to ensure she received favored treatment from other cops).

Once the police arrived, she reiterated that she was the offspring of a cop and the (Wayne, NJ) police proceeded to take her statement first.

When the officers went to take my statement, they waited until I’d gotten half way through my first sentence and claimed that they smelled alcohol on my breath. This is odd because, due to a family history of alcoholism, I elected not to drink and, other then Communion, never have.

Without allowing me to finish my statement, the officers placed me under arrest, handcuffing me in front of all the witnesses to the accident, and placing me in the squad car. Despite the fact that I told the officer that my back was hurting from the accident, they refused to loosen the cuffs or cuff me in the front where my arms wouldn’t be pulling on my shoulders and back.

Once we arrived at the station, they told me that all the officers who were qualified to operate the breathalyzer were “busy” and that I’d have to wait in a cell until one of them had the time to administer the breathalyzer.

It turned out that all of them were “busy” for the next eight hours during which I was forced to sit in a damp disgusting cell, handcuffed to the bench, with my back throbbing.

When the breathalyzer was finally administered, it registered a BAL of .0002% (an attorney and friend of mine informed me that this reading could result from the inherent inaccuracy of the machine or from alcohol naturally released when food ferments in the stomach-something that happens when someone hasn’t eaten in a 10 hours) well below the legal limit of .08%*.

I was then released but still had to pay for the towing of my vehicle to the impound lot (the state CLAIMS that it will reimburse me for this in 10-12 weeks) and pay for a cab to take me to the impound lot (an expense I won’t be refunded).

After this disgusting display of corruption and favoritism, I found the “respect” poster highly ironic.

After engaging in behavior like this, how can police officers respect themselves???

Furthermore, how can these same police officers expect the public to respect them???

*Furthermore, my friend told me that while the actions of the cops were immoral, they can be made to appear technically “legal” and thus it wouldn’t be worth pursuing LEGAL action against these officers…I can’t say what would happen if I met any of them or the b*tch who started this by hitting me in a dark ally…

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Help. My children hate going to their dads. They cry for hours. Do I have to send them?

  • Posted on October 14, 2010 at 1:24 am

My children are 9,8, and 6. They cry every other week when I force them to go to dads. It takes 45 minutes to drag my 9 year old out the car. My 6 year old cries to she falls asleep. My ex, has 2 dwi’s, drinks while they are there, they say he’s mean when drinking. Like my daughter cried for “her mommy” for 3 hours sat. night and he told her to “shut the hell up, or i’m going to spank you.” My 9 year old makes himself sick as Friday approaches hoping he’ll get to stay home for that reason. In January I had an attorney draw up paperwork giving joint custody with me as domiciliary parent and visitation every other weekend with dad. It took him till August to sign it finally. Still his attorney hasn’t turned it over to my attorney yet. So nothing is filed. I understand that since that’s the case I don’t have to send them over there, but Legally I don’t have custody yet either. Any suggestions from anyone with any legal knowledge on this subject. I don’t want to end up arrested for violating his parental rights, but I have 3 children who are counting on me to keep them safe and happy. I live in Louisiana, if that info. helps for anyone with Louisiana law knowledge.

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Does anyone play Brickbreaker on their Blackberry? If so, what level have you gotten to?

  • Posted on October 11, 2010 at 10:22 am

My wife, daughter, and I are addicted to it, and I recently got the level 29!!!!! No joke, toughest levels are 16 and 17, after that they seemed to easier.

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Why do they portray parents from the 1970′s as encouraging their children to do drugs and have orgies?

  • Posted on September 16, 2010 at 1:22 pm

I just saw on Tv a show and they had the “typical” parents from the 1970′s encouraging their 14 year old daughter to do cocaine and have unprotected sex.

Thats not how all parents in the 70′s were like right?

And they also seem to portray parents today as more conservative which I can’t seem to believe with the ultra sexual television and music.

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Can a passenger sitting in their driveway be charged with dui if they had some one drive them home and left?

  • Posted on September 14, 2010 at 8:22 am

My daughter and her friend picked me up from a bar because I was drunk. When we arrived home my daughter went in the house and her friend left with another person to pick up my other daughter. Approximately, 30-40 seconds later an officer approaches me while I was scratching a lottery ticket in the passenger seat before going in the house. The officer then arrests me for dwi even though I told her I wasn’t driving the vehicle. Can I be charged with dui if wasn’t even driving and the cop shows up several seconds later looking for the car?
I do not if the keys were left in the ignition because I wasn’t paying attention and my timing may be off because again I was drunk but I do know it took long enough for him to leave and for my daughter to get in the house to head for the bathroom before the cop showed up. The cop also stated to the magistrate that she was cut off by a car and was not close enough too me as the reason for the delay.

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What is the film where some children lock their alcoholic mother in a sauna?

  • Posted on August 25, 2010 at 4:17 pm

It’s a British film about children who lock up their alcoholic mother to dry her out, the oldest daughter impersonates her voice.

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