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Why is my mother so attached to my father even though he’s cheated on her at least three known times?

  • Posted on May 5, 2011 at 1:22 am

She has had a rough life getting pregnant at 16, then she moved to Houston w/ 2 kids and “supposedly” would lock herself and her lover in a room for hours while letting my 1/2-sisters cry for her yelling and screaming under the door. Then she met my dad who is a drug addict (coke and beer) and hasn’t been able to let go even though he’s cheated on her at least 3 known times. He can’t stop talking to his other lover (well call her Jamie) and she has called my mom at work saying she wants my dad. My mom is still sexually active with my dad knowing he still communicates with Jamie. And, my mom has gone as far as following Jamie’s daughter . Every time we confront my mom about it she gets upset and won’t talk to us for days. She seems to think that her and my dad are happily married and us, her children, have to put up with his addictions. Not to mention, we all think that my dad is also attracted to my 1/2-sister (my mothers daughter from a previous ‘lover’). SERIOUS HELP ONLY!!!

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Why is my mother so attached to my father even though he’s cheated on her at least three known times?

  • Posted on May 3, 2011 at 10:21 pm

She has had a rough life getting pregnant at 16, then she moved to Houston w/ 2 kids and “supposedly” would lock herself and her lover in a room for hours while letting my 1/2-sisters cry for her yelling and screaming under the door. Then she met my dad who is a drug addict (coke and beer) and hasn’t been able to let go even though he’s cheated on her at least 3 known times. He can’t stop talking to his other lover (well call her Jamie) and she has called my mom at work saying she wants my dad. My mom is still sexually active with my dad knowing he still communicates with Jamie. And, my mom has gone as far as following Jamie’s daughter . Every time we confront my mom about it she gets upset and won’t talk to us for days. She seems to think that her and my dad are happily married and us, her children, have to put up with his addictions. Not to mention, we all think that my dad is also attracted to my 1/2-sister (my mothers daughter from a previous ‘lover’). SERIOUS HELP ONLY!!!

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Why is my mother so attached to my father even though he’s cheated on her at least three known times?

  • Posted on April 26, 2011 at 1:21 am

She has had a rough life getting pregnant at 16, then she moved to Houston w/ 2 kids and “supposedly” would lock herself and her lover in a room for hours while letting my 1/2-sisters cry for her yelling and screaming under the door. Then she met my dad who is a drug addict (coke and beer) and hasn’t been able to let go even though he’s cheated on her at least 3 known times. He can’t stop talking to his other lover (well call her Jamie) and she has called my mom at work saying she wants my dad. My mom is still sexually active with my dad knowing he still communicates with Jamie. And, my mom has gone as far as following Jamie’s daughter . Every time we confront my mom about it she gets upset and won’t talk to us for days. She seems to think that her and my dad are happily married and us, her children, have to put up with his addictions. Not to mention, we all think that my dad is also attracted to my 1/2-sister (my mothers daughter from a previous ‘lover’). SERIOUS HELP ONLY!!!

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Will he get joint custody even though his past is not so good?

  • Posted on April 23, 2011 at 7:23 pm

So I am trying everything I can to work it out with my fiance but no mattedr what we still seem to fight and I can’t do it anymore and neither can he. I am 25 weeks pregnant and we got in a fight the other night because I moved back in with my dad and he wants us to get a house now before the baby is born and I am fine with that the only thing I worry about is he has been smoking weed for forever now and even though he has cut back a lot in the past month I just wanted to make sure he knew that if he still did that that if I moved in with him I didnt want it at the house like it was when we lived together a few months back. I don’t think there is anything wrong with pot I just don’t want it around because our baby is the most important thing to me and if it was in our house and he got busted we would both go to jail and loose her. I refuse to even give it a chance of that happening. Well he got really pissed off at me basically saying i was trying to control him which im not thats the condition of me moving in and he thinks I am so horrible for trying to make him decide. He also said that it is not just up to me to decide what she is around and I know that it just scares me because I would do anything to make sure she wouldnt be in that kind of enviroment. Though he has the same rights she has been in my belly growing and I havent been able to go out and have all the fun he has been having he hasnt given up anyting for her. He told me if we werent together that the court would give us both joint custody and that we both would be able to make the decisions and that when she is with him he can raise her how ever he wants to! Those words scared me the most because he seriosly lacks good judgement. Just 2 weekends ago he almost got arrested for possesion of weed, driving drunk, and no insurance or registration but got off because the cop was nice. I dont want that person making decisions on how to raise my daughter. What I am asking is if he is right about the court will they give us both the same rights and joint custody? Is there any way that he can still see her but I get to make the decisions I know my dad had main custody over me like where he got to make the decisions about school, doctors visits, bed time and all that. Would I be able to get that because he has a past with run ins with the law? PLEASE HELP I know I should have never gotten pregnant with his kid but there is nothing to do now so please no bashing me on that I will do whatever it takes to give my daughter everything she is already my whole world so please helpful advice I really need it! Thanks!
first off I NEVER said i didnt want him to see his child okay those words never came out of my mouth she needs himand he needs her but what I was asking is will they make it where I make the decisions because honestly I dont think he is very good at making decisions for himself let alone our daughter he has a record of selling and using drugs so stop making me sound like a horrible person I am a concerned mommy to be.

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Will things get better? I feel as though I am losing my sanity.?

  • Posted on April 13, 2011 at 4:22 pm

I am struggling with chemical addictions since I was 12 and i am 27 now. i have been in and out of rehab and currently am going through a divorce with a woman i loved with all my heart and we were together 8 years and have a 3 year old daughter together with. She left me last year because my addiction was out of control. i have since tried to clean up my act, and i just can’t. i have a heroin addiction right now.

Really what is going on right now is i feel so alone, like all my relationships are distant. nobody is close to me. i can’t seem to generate a positive thought. i cant sleep. i have no appetite. things seem really far away like im not in my body. i am staring at knives in the kitchen and having thoughts of hurting myself. i feel as though im losing my grip on reality and really need some help

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How to get my 4 year old to stay dry though the night.?

  • Posted on September 2, 2010 at 1:24 am

My 4 year 3 month old daughter still wets her pull up though the night. I’ve tried limiting her drinks after dinner, getting her to pee 3 times in the last hour before bedtime and that doesn’t help. Waking her at 11 is a disaster, she’s a very deep sleeper and it’s traumatic for me to wake her up, she can’t figure out what’s going on and it scares her. I think it’s because she is such a sound sleeper that she’s wetting her pull up before she wakes up fully, but she’s beginning to really feel ashamed of this and my heart is breaking for her. I don’t mind the peeing, I’m ready to wait for it to end on it’s own, but she’s so bothered by it I feel like I need to do something.

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my brother has married my step daughter, he is an alcoholic and even though they have been together for two?

  • Posted on January 24, 2010 at 4:06 am

years he is still causing so much trouble.recently he had a fight with my older brother which he started but got him arrested, thankfully there was a witness so the charge was dropped, he has presented to his wife that he was attaked she belives him. few years ago he turned her against me and her dad. we have just resumed contact but under very strange rules. her dad cant have her number or email at work but only use her personal one. he has mentioned hooking up as they have not seen eatch other for 2 years but five weeks on no date has been set.we bumped into one of his exes and she said it was the same with her, she also mentioned he had nothing good to say about me and said i was evil,i am pregnant and i wish things could be better. i really want my husbund at least to have a relationship with his daughter as everything has turned bad since my brother has hit the scene. he has also spread poison to the other children and they seem very distance. i wish he would just go away!

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how did you get your child to stay dry though the night?

  • Posted on January 2, 2010 at 10:07 pm

i have literally tried everything. I need something new to get my 3 1/2 years old daughter to wake up dry. I don’t let her drink after 730, she goes to bed around 9 she goes to the bathroom a hour b4 bedtime and again right b4 she gets into bed. i wake her up at 12 to go pee, but if i dont wake her up she doesn’t wake on her own. she does wake up around 3-4 to pee again. they we get up at 7 30. she makes it some night to the bathroom all night, and sometimes she is wet after nap time. she naps for about a hour and 1/2. I don’t know what else to do. i don’t know how to make it click with her. I reward her every time she wakes up dry, she has a goody bag that she picks out of. She wants to be dry, just can’t seem to do it. Please HELP!!

Thanks

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