You finally heard the news you’ve been dreading to hear, even though you know deep down that it is going to happen one day – that your ex boyfriend is an item with someone new. The tick off? You have just broken up with him, or rather, he has recently suggested that the two of you take a break.
Needless to say, being dumped is bad enough without all the additional humiliation. Don’t go on a spy mission to compare yourself to this new interest of his, or go on to investigate if he have already been unfaithful with you in the past. Why endure the added pain just to find out the truth?
What most women do not realize is that men are easy prey to another hook up (notice how I don’t call it a relationship) right after a break up. It may be a means of killing lonely hours, seeking thrill after long period of being with a steady girlfriend, or just finding someone to share the bed. The truth is that men, unlike women, are not on the lookout for a soul mate. They can separate intimate contact from feelings, which means that “the hook up” is not what it may seem at first.
Your ex may be indulging in a rebound relationship just to ease the pain of the break up, so essentially he may still harbor feelings for you. Since he is still in a vulnerable post-breakup state, your chance of getting back together is high, and it is important to do all the right things from the very beginning, such as displaying the correct reaction to the break up. The more you wait to act, the more he will get over you and the harder it is to kiss and make up.
If you really want to get back with an ex boyfriend, try this powerful method of ignoring him. Men are “conquerers” by nature and they seek new prey from time to time. You can keep you man interested as long as you play the role of a trophy prey. The finer looking and the more out of reach you are, the more he is going to be interested.
Let him go, leave it for a while, reach out sometimes but don’t initiate getting back together. This will drive him absolutely crazy. He will be flattered yet is confused about what you really want from him. Plant the seed of possible reconciliation and watch them turn into a desire that come deep within him.
The best part is that you can do this even if you’re dumped. Why play the role of a pathetic unwanted girlfriend when you can be “the one that got away”? Men are never articulate enough to tell if they are making the correct decision especially when it comes to love (don’t we all?) and this is where you can cast doubt in his mind. Before long, he will see that he have made a huge mistake by breaking up with you and will try to get back together with you.
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