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Do republicans have family values?

  • Posted on April 25, 2011 at 3:20 pm

We remember Bush’s “party” girls, Cheney’s “daughter”, Palin’s daughter.

I believe they all support “Focus on the Family”. Oh remember the pastor from focus on the family that had gay sex while high on Meth.

We let these people set policy for OUR children…

What is wrong with our political system?

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Should Obama speak of his ‘family values” from his own ‘experience”?

  • Posted on March 16, 2011 at 7:23 am

Obama’s mama was only 17 when Obama was conceived, and was NOT married, then married a polygamist (for those who don’t know what it means look it up) , who only stayed around for 2 years,an alcoholic then cut and ran and died while driving drunk. So when you try to bash Gov Palins daughter, better look back in history, Obama’s own mother did the exact same thing, so Obama’s “typically white” grandmother must have failed then. His parents’ marriage took place six months before his birth on February 2nd, 1961. Nine months before Obama’s birth would be early November 1960, about three to four weeks before Ann Dunham’s 18th birthday on November 29, 1960.

Could the moral difference in character possibly be more clear?

Sarah & Todd Palin: “We’re proud of (our 17 year-old daughter) Bristol’s decision to have her baby and even prouder to become grandparents. As Bristol faces the responsibilities of adulthood, she knows she has our unconditional love and support.”

Barack Obama: “If my daughter makes a mistake, I don’t want her punished with a baby.”

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Did Palin destroy the Republicans ‘family values ‘ principal they use to believe in?

  • Posted on January 18, 2011 at 4:21 am

Palin having an unmarried pregnant daughter and rumors of her son’s drug addiction plus her mentor that believed in witches,did that take away the “family values” Republicans used as their mainstay?

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Are you Confused about Republicans VALUES as well?

  • Posted on November 4, 2010 at 3:22 am

I’m a little confused. Let me see if I have this straight…..

* If you grow up in Hawaii, raised by your grandparents, you’re “exotic, different.”
* Grow up in Alaska eating mooseburgers, a quintessential American story.

* If your name is Barack you’re a radical, unpatriotic Muslim.
* Name your kids Willow, Trig and Track, you’re a maverick.

* Graduate from Harvard law School and you are unstable.
* Attend 5 different small colleges before graduating, you’re well grounded.

* If you spend 3 years as a brilliant community organizer, become the first black President of the Harvard Law Review, create a voter registration drive that registers 150,000 new voters, spend 12 years as a Constitutional Law professor, spend 8 years as a State Senator representing a district with over 750,000 people, become chairman of the state Senate’s Health and Human Services committee, spend 4 years in the United States Senate representing a state of 13 million people while sponsoring 131 bills and serving on the Foreign Affairs, Environment and Public Works and Veteran’s Affairs committees, you don’t have any real leadership experience.
* If your total resume is: local weather girl, 4 years on the city council and 6 years as the mayor of a town with less than 7,000 people, 20 months as the governor of a state with only 650,000 people, then you’re qualified to become the country’s second highest ranking executive.

* If you have been married to the same woman for 19 years while raising 2 beautiful daughters, all within Protestant churches, you’re not a real Christian.
* If you cheated on your first wife with a rich heiress, and left your disfigured wife and married the heiress the next month, you’re a Christian.
* If you teach responsible, age appropriate sex education, including the proper use of birth control, you are eroding the fiber of society.
* If , while governor, you staunchly advocate abstinence only, with no other option in sex education in your state’s school system while your unwed teen daughter ends up pregnant , you’re very responsible.

* If your wife is a Harvard graduate laywer who gave up a position in a prestigious law firm to work for the betterment of her inner city community, then gave that up to raise a family, your family’s values don’t represent America’s.
* If you’re husband is nicknamed “First Dude”, with at least one DWI conviction and no college education, who didn’t register to vote until age 25 and once was a member of a group that advocated the secession of Alaska from the USA, your family is extremely admirable.

Please explain if you think this is OK.

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Do you feel confused about America’s values?

  • Posted on September 18, 2010 at 4:23 am

This might help you answer my question more thoroughly:

I’m a little confused. Let me see if I have this straight…..

* If you grow up in Hawaii, raised by your grandparents, you’re “exotic, different.”

* Grow up in Alaska eating mooseburgers, a quintessential American story.

* If your name is Barack you’re a radical, unpatriotic Muslim.

* Name your kids Willow, Trig and Track, you’re a maverick.

* Graduate from Harvard law School and you are unstable.

* Attend 5 different small colleges before graduating, you’re well grounded.

* If you spend 3 years as a brilliant community organizer, become the first black President of the Harvard Law Review, create a voter registration drive that registers 150,000 new voters, spend 12 years as a Constitutional Law professor, spend 8 years as a State Senator representing a district with over 750,000 people, become chairman of the state Senate’s Health and Human Services committee, spend 4 years in the United States Senate representing a state of 13 million people while sponsoring 131 bills and serving on the Foreign Affairs, Environment and Public Works and Veteran’s Affairs committees, you don’t have any real leadership experience.

* If your total resume is: local weather girl, 4 years on the city council and 6 years as the mayor of a town with less than 7,000 people, 20 months as the governor of a state with only 650,000 people, then you’re qualified to become the country’s second highest ranking executive.

* If you have been married to the same woman for 19 years while raising 2 beautiful daughters, all within Protestant churches, you’re not a real Christian.

* If you cheated on your first wife with a rich heiress, and left your disfigured wife and married the heiress the next month, you’re a Christian.

* If you teach children about sexual predators, you are irresponsible and eroding the fiber of society.

* If, while governor, you staunchly advocate abstinence only, with no other option in sex education in your state’s school system while your unwed teen daughter ends up pregnant, you’re very responsible.

* If your wife is a Harvard graduate lawyer who gave up a position in a prestigious law firm to work for the betterment of her inner city community, then gave that up to raise a family, your family’s values don’t represent America ‘s.

* If you’re husband is nicknamed “First Dude”, with at least one DWI conviction and no college education, who didn’t register to vote until age 25 and once was a member of a group that hates America and advocated the secession of Alaska from the USA, your family is extremely admirable.

OK, much clearer now.

idotstic: Wow! Thank you. I’m flattered that the facts I presented made you so mad. That’s the effect of truth on idiots.
Nevets & Kari: Thank you. Feel free to spread the truth around.

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Do you want to see John Kerry’s daughters mugshot from yesterdays DWI arrest? Is this moral values Democrats?

  • Posted on July 31, 2010 at 7:22 am

http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local-beat/Senators-Wife-Charged-With-DWI-70519417.html

This is the moral values that Democrats are always preaching about? Look at her face how funny it is, she is toast and Kerry’s out on his behind, fact.

http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local-beat/Senators-Wife-Charged-With-DWI-70519417.html

No I posted the wrong link. This one is simply liberal media nonsense. The real John kerry daughter DUI is the one you want to see. I’ll look for it now!

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Hey Democrats, why did John Kerry’s daughter get a DUI yesterday? Is this Democrat moral values at work?

  • Posted on July 29, 2010 at 9:22 am

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2009/11/19/sen-lugars-wife-charged-dwi-hit-run

Look at her mugshot, haha.

This is probably what will finally sink the Dems, this is pretty big news according to most news sources, fact.

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The Obama Family and Family Values

  • Posted on January 11, 2010 at 2:25 pm

In a recent letter to his girls, President Barack Obama wrote: “I want you to grow up in a world with no limits on your dreams and no achievements beyond your reach……” Now that’s a strong message from a father to his daughters.

Some say that the Obamas are the kind of family they would like to be. Michelle has a healthy attitude about parenting that resonates for those with strong family values. And she has talked about her personal struggle of juggling work and kids, not that different from any other ordinary American working mother. More than we might expect, given her training and high-powered career, the division of labor in the marriage has been fairly traditional. Michelle is an involved mom and has said that the wellbeing of her girls comes first.

In their personal relationship, if she’s hard on her husband, it’s because her expectations of everyone are high. But she’s also a realist. When Michelle mentions Barack’s flaws, it’s to make a larger point – not to put the president on a pedestal when no one can fulfill all our fantasies. Both of them think that having one person in control of a problem can only cause more of the same. They see that leadership model as not the way to run a family – or a country. In discussions, Obama is not the only boss. He welcomes engagement and wants to be challenged. And that comes across in the role that Michelle plays.

As Barack tells it, all the men in his life were fragile, but the women could always be relied upon. In his wife, he sees a lot of his grandmother – the practical, no-nonsense woman who raised him. He likes that Michelle insists he be the kind of father he never had. And just as she is a reflection of his values, their partnership is a good indication of the character strengths and listening skills he brings to the White House.

No family always runs smoothly. And there can be problems that aren’t that easy to fix. As you evaluate the kind of support and strategies you need, keep the following tips in mind:

1. Keep your expectations realistic. You may have very clear ideas about how you want your family to be. But realize that every member will have their own way of handling challenges, conflicts and disappointments. Don’t think that what’s a priority for you will be the same for everyone. And remember that the present state of affairs won’t last.

2. Be willing to compromise. With a situation you can’t agree on in a family relationship that matters a lot, take the time to understand both sides of the issue. Validate everyone’s feelings and try to withhold blame. It’s not necessary to excuse bad behavior, but show support for what they’re going through. If in the past you have gone underground and then exploded later, don’t let these feelings fester. Acknowledge the part that you play in the conflict and deal with it. Negotiating an agreement that both of you can live with is often the best way to move on.

3. Set long-range goals about what you want to accomplish as well as short-term objectives that will help you reach them. These concrete plans provide the basic foundation and parameters for change in your partner, your children, your parents and yourself. As you successfully move forward, step by step, your self-confidence will grow. Ongoing action and a positive attitude will motivate you to stay on track and ultimately reach your family goals.

4. Look at your situation and decide what works for you. If you need some time by yourself, be sure to fit that into your plans. When you want to reconnect with your teenagers, plan outings that will appeal to both of you. If your parents are up to it, invite them on a family vacation. Your children will benefit from spending quality time with their grandparents. And it will give you free time and the chance for you and your partner to catch up without distractions.

5. Do what is necessary to maintain familiarity and continuity. If you nurture your family and stabilize their environment, they will feel more secure. The structure in their lives and the support you give them will relieve feelings of anxiety or stress. Children are resilient and, as you model positive thinking and hope, they will thrive. The rewards can be immeasurable for the whole family.

In this administration, with a protective mom in chief, one major focus on the home-front will be the first daughters. The goal of these devoted parents is to help the girls find their way in their new environment. And Michelle’s mom is moving in for now, to provide a constant presence and keep the girls grounded. When asked about the relationship with his mother-in-law, the president, among other things, said: “I don’t tell my mother-in-law what to do.” Doesn’t it sound like our new president is off to a really good start?

© 2009, Her Mentor Center

Phyllis Goldberg, Ph.D. & Rosemary Lichtman, Ph.D. are co-founders of www.HerMentorCenter.com, a website for midlife women and www.NourishingRelationships.blogspot.com, a blog for the sandwich generation. They are authors of a forthcoming book about family relationships and publish a free newsletter, Stepping Stones, through their website. As psychotherapists, they have over 40 years of collective private practice experience.

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Do you want to see John Kerry’s daughters mugshot from yesterdays DWI arrest? Is this moral values Democrats?

  • Posted on January 4, 2010 at 4:07 pm

http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local-beat/Senators-Wife-Charged-With-DWI-70519417.html

This is the moral values that Democrats are always preaching about? Look at her face how funny it is, she is toast and Kerry’s out on his behind, fact.

http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local-beat/Senators-Wife-Charged-With-DWI-70519417.html

No I posted the wrong link. This one is simply liberal media nonsense. The real John kerry daughter DUI is the one you want to see. I’ll look for it now!

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Hey Democrats, why did John Kerry’s daughter get a DUI yesterday? Is this Democrat moral values at work?

  • Posted on January 4, 2010 at 10:07 am

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2009/11/19/sen-lugars-wife-charged-dwi-hit-run

Look at her mugshot, haha.

This is probably what will finally sink the Dems, this is pretty big news according to most news sources, fact.

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