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What it Takes to Actualize Your Creative Talents

  • Posted on July 2, 2009 at 4:51 pm

Hide not your talents. They for use were made. What’s a sundial in the shade? – Benjamin Franklin

The most exciting place to discover and actualize your talent is in yourself. What does it mean to realize your talents, and how do you do it? When you actualize your talents you understand them clearly and bring them forth out into the world. Understanding and expressing your talent is an active, continuing process of knowing what you can do and who you are, at your deepest level.

People who actualize their talents actively participate in the ongoing process in which one’s abilities are fully, creatively and enthusiastically expressed.

“Self actualization means working to do well the thing that one wants to do.” – Abraham Maslow

The roots of developing your natural talents are in your learning and coping skills. Do you seek opportunities to learn and grow, stretch beyond your current abilities even if part of the process includes mistakes and criticism? Or do you keep safely within limitations that allow you to evade judgment and vulnerability? Authenticity, self-confidence and self-worth development is an important to the expansion of your talents as is the mastery of actual skills and knowledge.

Emotional intelligence, mental health challenges and other aspects of being human can impact how you relate to the world and other people, and express your talents. Living authentically with passion and purpose instead of though the well-meaning ‘should-be and suppose to’ directions of others is essential to your growth as a creative person in all areas of your life. How you react, and your awareness level of your reactions, to the events of your life shape your ability to express your potential.

As with suppressing emotions, suppressing your natural creative talents ultimately results in dissatisfaction and depression. Simply put, holding yourself back is bad for your health, emotionally and physically. Expressing your creative talent is not just about splashing paint on canvas or writing or performing in the latest Broadway hit. Full creative expression involves the application of certain attitudes, such as curiosity, metamorphosis, playfulness and experimentation, to any aspect of life

“Authentic treachery is found when we abandon ourselves, becoming deaf to the whispers of our spirits and blind to the powerful potential therein” – Joaquin Mariel Espinosa

To live creatively, actualizing your talents, is to live your life in the moment and at full-blast. If your ego, that woefully misguided Inner Critic, has held you back from living out loud in your creative expression, disarm it; take away its power to direct your choices, actions and that which you experience. Tell it that it can come along for the ride but for the rest of your life journey, your Inner Critic will sit in the back seat, perhaps with a bankie and a sippy cup.

There’s an easy way to determine whether or not you are expressing or suppressing your natural talents. Pay attention to how you feel. If you’re tired, unmotivated, or unfulfilled you are holding yourself back. You have given your personal and creative powers over to your Inner Critic. If you feel good, productive and full of energy then you have tapped into the vast resource that is your birthright, your personal power, inborn talent and higher self – or what I playfully call the Wizard that is Within you.

The Wizard that is Within you knows you by heart. She knows your truth, purpose and passion in life. She is the voice of your intuition and inspiration. She is your Muse. Reclaim your personal power, acknowledge, honor and nurture your talents that are your birthright to mindfully and intentionally maximize your full potential.

“Speak, look and act in the direction of your dreams.” – Wizard Wizdom

Copyright (c) 2009 Valery Satterwhite

Valery is a Creative Mentor who helps people get out of their own way so they can move overcome the struggles that come packaged with the life of a visual & performing artist. Clients learn how to express their full potential deliberately & responsibly to create more passionately, profoundly, productively & profitably. Empower the Inner Wizard to actualize your authentic talents. http://www.InnerWizard.com Free “Empower the Inner Wizard tips”

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How to Stop Panic Attacks by Remembering They Cannot Harm You

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 7:36 pm

How to stop panic attacks sounds easy enough when you hear or read what folks tell you. But in reality, during a panic attack, it’s very hard to re-order your thoughts to stop the attack. During panic attacks, you are so overpowered by physical and emotional stress and anxiety that it’s very difficult to organise your mind and do the things that you have been taught.

The first thing to remember is that panic attacks in themselves cannot harm you: your life is not in danger. The symptoms you are experiencing are your body’s way of reacting, in the way it knows how, to ‘perceived’ threats to it. But these threats are all in your head, they aren’t real.

In other words, the tightness in your chest and throat, the rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, sweating, the feeling that you are having a heart attack, etc. are you body’s natural reactions to the illogical, irrational fear and vulnerability that you are experiencing.

The trigger for it could have been the stress of going for a job interview, making a presentation, being stuck in traffic, in a lift, and many other situations. The stress of this on top of an already anxious condition can help trigger a panic attack due to the release of adrenaline into your bloodstream. And this can happen many hours after the event.

So how to stop panic attacks under these circumstances? It sounds easier than it actually is — I know, I’ve been there — but you must try very hard to do the following…

1. Be confident and think positively: “I know my life is not in danger and I know for sure that these symptoms will go away very shortly”.

2. Breath deeply and steadily: Controlled breathing can help to calm you down and reduce your heart rate. It’s also a good idea to exhale for slightly longer than you inhale. This pattern may help you relax more quickly.

3. If you have had a panic attack previously you may be able to recognise the first signs. Depending on location and circumstances etc., stop what you are doing, walk away, focus on something completely different, relax. Remember, think positively and control your breathing as above.

However, none of the above can actually get rid of your underlying general anxiety. They are purely coping techniques to help you through a panic attack and hopefully shorten it. They cannot prevent further panic attacks and certainly cannot cure your general anxiety.

Did you know that a critical factor in recurrent panic attacks is the actual fear of another panic attack? You need to face this fear head on and defeat it. If not it can be very difficult, if not impossible, to cure your general anxiety.

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