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my daughter seems to be addicted to her mentally abusive husband.Will she ever wake up and smell the coffee?!?

  • Posted on August 20, 2010 at 3:19 pm
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Wake Up Call!!

  • Posted on January 6, 2010 at 4:08 pm

Wake Up Call!!

Many times you must have come across to such students who want to go for higher education. Some students go for higher education because his girlfriend is going, vice-versa, and some are going because their parents are compelling and most interesting some are going because they do not know what to do. Basically, these are the students who do not know themselves well and do not realize their hidden potential. These kinds of people waste their unrecoverable time and put blame either to god or circumstances. I do not understand one thing why these people tell lie to themselves. Do they really not understand their responsibilities towards their parents, society and nation? Do they really not want to accept the onus to make this world a better place to live? Do they really not want to contribute to eradicate the poverty from this world? Do they really not want that every body should be able to manager their food, shelter and other necessities of the life? Do they really not want that they should represent their country in sports, in business, in politics and other areas at global level? Do they really not want that their parents should feel proud on their laurels?

I talk to many such students who are shying away from their responsibilities. And I came to know that these students are highly talented and having a lot of potential to do a lot of things not only for themselves but for the nation and world. I would like to call them ‘Wasted Talent’. And I also came to know what kind of excuses they put forward not to accept their duties. Let’s discuss one by one.

First issue that I noticed is ‘negative attitude’. They say they can not change the world so why to take tension. I do not understand why these people forget that history is created by only one person not by the masses. If you look at the history you will find that only one person had created a history not the masses. Here, I would like to take an example of ‘MADD- Mothers against drunk drivers’. It is a non-profit organization of US. You people would be amazed to know that it was only one woman who created a history. Now this organization is operating in more than 20 countries across the globe. The difference is that she was with positive attitude and a lot of zeal to make it happen. Now can I ask a question, what you would have done if you had lost your one of the family members in accident due to truck driver’s mistake?  I am sure, first you would have got angry and beat the truck driver, second you would have lodged a complaint against truck driver in the police station and thirdly you would have run behind the insurance company to claim so some money can be arranged. And what else? That woman did not do anything listed above when she lost her only daughter. Instead of this, she decided to form a group which will fight against truck community not to drive when they are drunk. Initially she did not think whether she would succeed or not. Just she did her duty so that any mother should not loose her daughter like her.   Wake my dear wasted talents!!!

Second issue that I noted down is ‘Why Me’. I do not understand when they commit mistake then they do not ask why I did it. When they see a beautiful girl and unfruitful thoughts come in their mind then they do not ask why I am thinking wrong. When they cheat or flirt with any girl which, eventually, breaks her heart then they do not ask why I did it. When they bribe college peon to get their work done then they do not ask why I am inculcating wrong culture in the college. When they drink then they do not ask why I am drinking. They watch movies when they are supposed to do study then they do not ask this question, ‘Why Me’. My dear wasted talents when you do not ask this question while doing wrong things then why you say ‘why me’ while doing right things. Basically, these kinds of students think that there is nothing right and nothing wrong so do whatever you think right. But this kind of thinking is absolutely wrong and conditional which do not lead to a successful life. Because if I flirt with their sisters then it is wrong but if they do then it is right. If I bribe peon to get the work done when they are in queue then it is wrong but if they do it is not. Finally, I will say one thing that those who says ‘why me’ or ‘there is nothing right and nothing wrong’ they are losers because they can not develop those habits which winners can do without asking this question, ‘why me’. Wake my dear wasted talents!!!

Third issue which I found is ‘Lack of facilities’. They say I do not have this thing or that otherwise I would have done this and that. I do not understand when these people will stop blaming others for their cowardliness.  I want to tell only one thing to these people that those want to do they do in spite of problems not in absence of the problems. And those who do not want to do if you give them everything they will still never do it. Look at the history which is full with these kinds of examples. Wake my dear wasted talents!! Wake up!!!

Having said that all the views are personal and I can not be held responsible for any untoward happening with anybody.

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