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Just wondering how many mothers have a daughter who can’t stand them no matter how much you try???!!!?

  • Posted on April 5, 2011 at 10:17 am

I mean I have poured everything into my daughter since birth. I could have given her up at birth, but I wanted to see if I could make a difference. After three years of struggling I met a wonderful man and married him, my soul mate!!! She hated him from day one even though he blessed her with everything. She made things really difficult between us especially when her two brothers came. She accused me of not loving her as much even though I assured her everything I was doing for them I had done for even better. Her clothes for infant life came from the finest stores theirs came from Wal Mart, her toys were store bought theirs sometime Garage sales, but even though she thinks in her Senior Year that we should sacrifice everything; so that she can have the finest of everything; because of her added stress I looked to alcohol for some relief, and she went and told the world I was an alcoholic. I find myself wanting her to finish school and just get out!!! I don’t know this child!!!
Some of you have said terrible mother; maybe so. I have tried to take her places do different things with her, but here lately even my sons ask me mother why do you keep trying when she continues to treat you so bad?? Even though she has told her friends various things about me some of them have seen her (TRUE) side and have expressed that life with me would be alright with them. In fact a couple of her friends that have moved out because of certain draastic issues have come to me to talk. If I can reach other teens why not my own. She puts me down in front of others; because I do not know fashion. It is not that I do not know fashion, I can not afford fashion sacrificing for her. She says I should let my hair grow out, but who has time running errands for her and last minute plans that she procrastintes about throwing my world upside down. I do love my daughter and I have always loved her, but God says turn the other cheeck I have turned hundreds with her comments. LOST!!!!!!

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I was wondering what I should do about my boyfriend and his crazy ex?

  • Posted on October 19, 2010 at 7:24 am

He dated her quite awhile ago and only for 6 months and got her prego last july while on ecstasy. He is clean and sober and has been dating me since oct so I have been through most of her pregnancy with him. She kissed him while he was visiting her while she was pregnant and keeps tryin to get back together with him. I forgave him for the kiss and for telling her he would marry her, he said it was only because it was “the right thing” to do but now he realizes its not. There daughter is two months old and he sees her all the time but with his ex around. Im afraid she is going to keep tryin to get back with him til we break up. She sends him texts and hangs out with him, should I be worried?
I guess I should also mention that I have been in love with him since like 7th grade…and we have known each other for 9 years….I love him so much it’s not that easy to just leave. He says I should just ignore her and eventually she will realize he doesn’t want her and he does tell her he doesn’t want her or love her like that.

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