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Do “maskers” for urine drugs screens work?

  • Posted on April 17, 2011 at 11:20 pm

for meth, specifically. My ex had to pass 3 drug screens to see our daughter, he has passed all 3, with 3-5 hours notice, but certainly still looks at acts like he is high as hell.

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If you think abstinence “doesn’t work?

  • Posted on January 7, 2011 at 4:32 pm

what would you recommend about
a)overeating? Many obese people tell us that “diet and exercise just doesn’t work for me.”
b)alcoholism? “C’mon…you know those A.A. meetings don’t do any good!”
c)drug addiction? “I’m hooked, I just can’t help myself.”
And there are dozens more…

Abstinence works for those who put their minds to it, who want it to work…of course, if we tell our kids that “denying your sexuality is unhealthy” and “you should experiment with sex before you get married”…well OF COURSE abstinece is not going to work for them.
Why do we let our public school system set our kids up for failure?
Is it that we actually WANT our daughters to be promiscuous, or our sons to become “hit and run” artists?

PARENTS, what the hell are you thinking?????

I, for one, am tired of paying for other people’s “indiscretions”. The idea of using public money to fund abortions is just sickening.
You want your kid to play, YOU be the one to pay.
*sigh*…When did I ever say teach the little darlings abstinence only?
And when did I say it was the school’s job to teach morality?

And WHEN did I say that Christians would willingly pay for abortions, fevvinsakes??

DAMMIT, can’t you people READ?????

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People who get divorced and remarried to the original spouse does it work out?

  • Posted on December 24, 2010 at 4:17 pm

If someone got divorced because of one being an alcoholic and constant fighting do yhou think they will get back together? what if the drinker stopped drinking and they have a daughter together?

They are a young couple. What are the statitistics of people getting divorced young and getting remarried to the original spouse is it a good idea?

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my mom went to work drunk?

  • Posted on November 18, 2010 at 11:22 pm

My oldest daughter is at my mom’ house right now,she just text’d me and said grandma (mymom) got called in to work. My mom had been drinking all evening from maybe 4pm til 11pm and then went to sleep,so she slept 1 and a half hours then got called in. Iam 250 miles away. I called my daughter right when I got her text and said tell her she better not drive,not to mention go to work drunk and my daughter said she already left. I was asking my daughter if grandma was REALLY drunk, trying to get an idea of how drunk she was , my daughter was like yeah, I guess. Im freaking out,shes driving,she probablly already at work. She works in a casino incase you are wondering
omg, I dont know what to think of this. Iam mad, that my mom hadnt thought about this before she decided to get drunk. She always drinks on her friday,which happens to be friday this time,anyways,she recently took over for her boss that was fired so she knows shes on call. wtf. My daughter that is at the house is 16,she doesnt have a license only a permit still but still,why t f wasnt either of them thinking, my god, Im praying she made it ok. My daughter said she was yelling when she left the house.
what should I do is the question
I just called her cell to see if she made it and shes drunk,whatever it makes me sick. She was at work. damn it,it makes me so angry that she drove drunk, I wish she would have gotten arrested, I should have called 911 but she was gone before my daughter told me,its not far to work. Iam so mad.

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Alcoholic brother will not work?

  • Posted on October 7, 2010 at 8:22 am

My brother is almost 50 years old and an alcoholic. He has had numerous DWI’s and no longer owns a driver’s license, but owns 4 cars which are parked in front of my parent’s house where he lives in the back garage with his wife.They do not pay rent or bills. He doesn’t drive any of his vehicles, he only changes the tires out when they rot. They have lived there for about 18 years now and I don’t think they have any intention of leaving. To make matters worse, during his marriage, he got another woman pregnant and my parents raised his daughter(by this time she was 4), while he told his wife it was our deceased brother’s daughter. She is 17 years old now and completely feels regected by him. He comes into my parent’s house and doesn’t say a word to anyone. He has the ability to make something of himself but he just chooses not to. They completely take advantage of my mother. But my mother allows it. She just says she can’t bring herself to put her own son out on the street.

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Hubby may be out of work for awhile but expects me to stay home and do all for his children. is this fair?help?

  • Posted on September 7, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My husband has been having all kinds of pain lately in relation to the right side of his chest, his back, some down his arm and near his stomach when he eats certain things. He is doped up on pain meds and relaxers right now from a doc and two antibiotics for a bacteria in his stomach called H. Pylori. He is taking amoxicillian (antibiotic), clarithromycin (antibiotic), oxycontin (muscle relaxer), cyclobenzaprine (pain), and nexium(heartburn). His work wont let him go back to work unless he doesnt take the pain med which he cant cuz he gets pain so bad and almost keels over. He has been in and out of the hospital numerous times and they find nothing.

They have run tests on him for heart, gallbladder, lungs, liver, you name it. He did have a scope and they found a hiatal hernia but the doc doesnt beleive that is hurting him and that it can be treated with nexium. I believe he needs to be refered to a bigger and better place but he keeps fighting me on it. I think that it will only be a matter of time before he finally stops being an *** and listens. These medicines are making him an angry nasty person. The doc says that he may have to sit at home and treat the bacteria and that may make him feel better but of course my husband is anxious to get back to work and will do whatever it takes.

Well, I am perfectly capable of working. I finished school to be a teacher but there are no jobs right now but i can obviously sub but if we have his children like we do every other week i cant take his son to school, i can only take his daughter and our son together to day care before i get to school. We have to drive his son into town which is about a 15 min drive the same time i have to be at a school to sub.

I suggested we have his two kids on the weekends and he is throwing a fit and thinks i should sit at home cuz i wont make much anyway because i got to pay day care. we certainly dont have money to pay before and after school care for his son plus his daughter and our son together. Well, i wouldnt have to pay so much if he was capable of watching them but i dont think he is on all those medicines. I dont think he will be able to take his son to school either. His son cant ride the bus cuz we live in a different district than his mother and of course everything is conveinent for her but not for us….i think my husband is being unreasonable when I feel that we need to be able to pay our bills and put food on the table and he only is going to be getting checks for about half of what he normally makes. I got school loans to pay for too. I would like to try and sub as much as i possibly can.

Child support is not an issue since he has papers saying that custody is 50 50 with no support but it can still be 50 50 if we take them every weekend and all summer or a reasonable amount that the mother agrees to. Anyways, I am also pregnant with our second child together. I do not need this stress. We need to pay our bills. What do I do? Please help??!
for real people do you not actually read and then just right some smart alec answer? i am not the worst speller but what the hell does that have to with the problem?
my duty is not housework! screw you sexist people and fyi my husband has a job but is not working because of this pain and or illness…but id guess you would know that if you were reading
i have to be at school anywhere between 7:30 am and 8 am and his son has to be at school at 8:15…there is no before school care at his school there is before and after school care at another school that buses them for a big price…see my point…they wont watch him at school before it starts
not to mention the cheapest day care is far from his sons school and any school i sub at most likely is not close to his sons school either unless i am subbing at his sons school which will not happen all the time obviously..i cant ask to do that they have to call me
i live around a big school district with lots of schools and can sub every day and i need to be available…i would at least make an extra 400 a month on the days that i only have my son…if i had to have the other girl it would only be 200 but thats at least some groceries and gas….hello?

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cialis users son in law claims it does work?

  • Posted on September 6, 2010 at 4:33 pm

He is 35 an alcoholic with high blood presssure. He claims his problem is the blood pressure meds. He got some cialis. Fisrt time he took it, he then when to the store and over to his dads to visit. Hours later he showed back up at home. It was a bust. I think it is his alcoholism and not having a desire for my daughter what do you think? I’ve read the desire has to be there before anything else will happen.

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Hubby may be out of work but expects me to sit at home and do all for his children..is this fair? help!?

  • Posted on September 6, 2010 at 3:21 pm

My husband has been having all kinds of pain lately in relation to the right side of his chest, his back, some down his arm and near his stomach when he eats certain things. He is doped up on pain meds and relaxers right now from a doc and two antibiotics for a bacteria in his stomach called H. Pylori. He is taking amoxicillian (antibiotic), clarithromycin (antibiotic), oxycontin (muscle relaxer), cyclobenzaprine (pain), and nexium(heartburn). His work wont let him go back to work unless he doesnt take the pain med which he cant cuz he gets pain so bad and almost keels over. He has been in and out of the hospital numerous times and they find nothing.

They have run tests on him for heart, gallbladder, lungs, liver, you name it. He did have a scope and they found a hiatal hernia but the doc doesnt beleive that is hurting him and that it can be treated with nexium. I believe he needs to be refered to a bigger and better place but he keeps fighting me on it. I think that it will only be a matter of time before he finally stops being an *** and listens. These medicines are making him an angry nasty person. The doc says that he may have to sit at home and treat the bacteria and that may make him feel better but of course my husband is anxious to get back to work and will do whatever it takes.

Well, I am perfectly capable of working. I finished school to be a teacher but there are no jobs right now but i can obviously sub but if we have his children like we do every other week i cant take his son to school, i can only take his daughter and our son together to day care before i get to school. We have to drive his son into town which is about a 15 min drive the same time i have to be at a school to sub.

I suggested we have his two kids on the weekends and he is throwing a fit and thinks i should sit at home cuz i wont make much anyway because i got to pay day care. we certainly dont have money to pay before and after school care for his son plus his daughter and our son together. Well, i wouldnt have to pay so much if he was capable of watching them but i dont think he is on all those medicines. I dont think he will be able to take his son to school either. His son cant ride the bus cuz we live in a different district than his mother and of course everything is conveinent for her but not for us….i think my husband is being unreasonable when I feel that we need to be able to pay our bills and put food on the table and he only is going to be getting checks for about half of what he normally makes. I got school loans to pay for too. I would like to try and sub as much as i possibly can.

Child support is not an issue since he has papers saying that custody is 50 50 with no support but it can still be 50 50 if we take them every weekend and all summer or a reasonable amount that the mother agrees to. Anyways, I am also pregnant with our second child together. I do not need this stress. We need to pay our bills. What do I do? Please help??!
when i mean his two children i mean the 2 he had before he met me with another woman…duh…
yea i realize i messed up the oxy contin part…it is the pain med and the other med is the relaxer…my bad….and i understand he wants his kids as apart of his life but that does not mean he has to jeopardize our family’s income and my health and stress levels…i love his kids and am willing to have them on the weekends i dont think thats unreasonalbe its not like he will be paying attention to them anyway they spend most of their time with me more than either of their parents ….so its not like it will be any different if he sees them every single weekend…dont give me that crap…people dont understand unless they are a step parent and understand the frustration. i cant do this all alone and i dont get help from him even when he isnt lying on a couch. if the kids could go to school in our district that would be great but the mother isnt gonna do that cuz she will have to drive on her week then and would be an inconvience to her. im sure she would let us have them weeknds
but my husband will throw a fit and say i dont want his kids around…even though he never pays attention to them ANYWAY! whether or not he is on meds

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Hubby may be out of work and expects me to do all for his children…is this fair? Help!?

  • Posted on September 5, 2010 at 5:21 pm

My husband has been having all kinds of pain lately in relation to the right side of his chest, his back, some down his arm and near his stomach when he eats certain things. He is doped up on pain meds and relaxers right now from a doc and two antibiotics for a bacteria in his stomach called H. Pylori. He is taking amoxicillian (antibiotic), clarithromycin (antibiotic), oxycontin (muscle relaxer), cyclobenzaprine (pain), and nexium(heartburn). His work wont let him go back to work unless he doesnt take the pain med which he cant cuz he gets pain so bad and almost keels over. He has been in and out of the hospital numerous times and they find nothing.

They have run tests on him for heart, gallbladder, lungs, liver, you name it. He did have a scope and they found a hiatal hernia but the doc doesnt beleive that is hurting him and that it can be treated with nexium. I believe he needs to be refered to a bigger and better place but he keeps fighting me on it. I think that it will only be a matter of time before he finally stops being an *** and listens. These medicines are making him an angry nasty person. The doc says that he may have to sit at home and treat the bacteria and that may make him feel better but of course my husband is anxious to get back to work and will do whatever it takes.

Well, I am perfectly capable of working. I finished school to be a teacher but there are no jobs right now but i can obviously sub but if we have his children like we do every other week i cant take his son to school, i can only take his daughter and our son together to day care before i get to school. We have to drive his son into town which is about a 15 min drive the same time i have to be at a school to sub.

I suggested we have his two kids on the weekends and he is throwing a fit and thinks i should sit at home cuz i wont make much anyway because i got to pay day care. we certainly dont have money to pay before and after school care for his son plus his daughter and our son together. Well, i wouldnt have to pay so much if he was capable of watching them but i dont think he is on all those medicines. I dont think he will be able to take his son to school either. His son cant ride the bus cuz we live in a different district than his mother and of course everything is conveinent for her but not for us….i think my husband is being unreasonable when I feel that we need to be able to pay our bills and put food on the table and he only is going to be getting checks for about half of what he normally makes. I got school loans to pay for too. I would like to try and sub as much as i possibly can.

Child support is not an issue since he has papers saying that custody is 50 50 with no support but it can still be 50 50 if we take them every weekend and all summer or a reasonable amount that the mother agrees to. Anyways, I am also pregnant with our second child together. I do not need this stress. We need to pay our bills. What do I do? Please help??!

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Hubby may be out of work, but expects me to stay home and do all for his children, is this fair? Please help!?

  • Posted on September 4, 2010 at 7:20 pm

My husband has been having all kinds of pain lately in relation to the right side of his chest, his back, some down his arm and near his stomach when he eats certain things. He is doped up on pain meds and relaxers right now from a doc and two antibiotics for a bacteria in his stomach called H. Pylori. He is taking amoxicillian (antibiotic), clarithromycin (antibiotic), oxycontin (muscle relaxer), cyclobenzaprine (pain), and nexium(heartburn). His work wont let him go back to work unless he doesnt take the pain med which he cant cuz he gets pain so bad and almost keels over. He has been in and out of the hospital numerous times and they find nothing.

They have run tests on him for heart, gallbladder, lungs, liver, you name it. He did have a scope and they found a hiatal hernia but the doc doesnt beleive that is hurting him and that it can be treated with nexium. I believe he needs to be refered to a bigger and better place but he keeps fighting me on it. I think that it will only be a matter of time before he finally stops being an *** and listens. These medicines are making him an angry nasty person. The doc says that he may have to sit at home and treat the bacteria and that may make him feel better but of course my husband is anxious to get back to work and will do whatever it takes.

Well, I am perfectly capable of working. I finished school to be a teacher but there are no jobs right now but i can obviously sub but if we have his children like we do every other week i cant take his son to school, i can only take his daughter and our son together to day care before i get to school. We have to drive his son into town which is about a 15 min drive the same time i have to be at a school to sub.

I suggested we have his two kids on the weekends and he is throwing a fit and thinks i should sit at home cuz i wont make much anyway because i got to pay day care. we certainly dont have money to pay before and after school care for his son plus his daughter and our son together. Well, i wouldnt have to pay so much if he was capable of watching them but i dont think he is on all those medicines. I dont think he will be able to take his son to school either. His son cant ride the bus cuz we live in a different district than his mother and of course everything is conveinent for her but not for us….i think my husband is being unreasonable when I feel that we need to be able to pay our bills and put food on the table and he only is going to be getting checks for about half of what he normally makes. I got school loans to pay for too. I would like to try and sub as much as i possibly can.

Child support is not an issue since he has papers saying that custody is 50 50 with no support but it can still be 50 50 if we take them every weekend and all summer or a reasonable amount that the mother agrees to. Anyways, I am also pregnant with our second child together. I do not need this stress. We need to pay our bills. What do I do? Please help??!
we have no relatives or friends that stay at home (all of our friends work). anyways even if we did have relatives to watch the children, they wouldnt be willing to drive a kid all over kingdom come to school and back. its not that i dont want his children, but yes i can sub every day and i need to be able to be available. I live in a big school district area where there are lots of schools around. and even if i dont get called a lot i am perfectly willing to get another job. i want to work and i feel it is my duty. his children are welcome on the weekends and i dont think thats to much to ask for. he would still see them a significant amount of time and not have to care for them

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