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Why is Obama smoking cigarettes worse than Bush snorting cocaine?

  • Posted on February 25, 2011 at 1:21 pm

It seems as if Bush’s supporters always say we are BLAMING him, when we are simply stating facts. Why is cigarettes that Obama admitted to smoking worse than the cocaince that Bush and his daughters were caught with? Why is Obama’s birth certificate requested more than Bush’s military record and/or DUI tickets? Should I go on?
Hey, someone tap Matt and pull his face away from the plate. I said Bush snorted cocaine, not crack and everyone knows it, its just not been much of a concern to anyone, but Obama’s nicotine habits do for some reason…

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What should I do? My husband is an alcoholic and in the past three months he is getting worse he now has taken

  • Posted on January 12, 2011 at 10:17 pm

up smoking pot. He has not wanted me to work for some time. I work two days a week every other week. I have had enough he was drunk on Christmas when we had family here and had to keep running to go get high. He even let his son drink here. I blew up. This man is 47 years old and he acts like he is 16. He goes to work and performs his job. He just can not be a father or a husband. He goes out every free moment he has from work. He dose not do one thing around the house. With the house or car and truck. He has two boys they are 16 & 18 he dose not spend any real time with them. I have a daughter she is 22 and pregnant and she said she will not come here again after the baby is born. She said she just won’t take the risk. I can’t blame her. I just don’t know how things have gotten so bad. I can not stand living this way I feel all alone. I have asked him to go get counseling for himself and us. He said he has no problem. I don’t fit into his plan in life. I don’t want to spend every night in the bar. I am waiting for my daughter to have the baby and then I plan on getting two jobs and get out of here. Am I wrong to do this? I just can’t take it anymore. Someone please help me what should I do?
My daughter lives in NY with her boyfriend. I live in PA. My daughter dose not want to take the chance of loosing her child while she is here because of his drug use and him involving all of us with him serving his oldest son drinks.My daughters boyfriend all so feels the same way he is fed up.

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Which would you consider a worse act from your daughter who is 17 years old?

  • Posted on October 6, 2010 at 8:18 pm

Getting pregnant by an illegal alien who is married to someone else and having a baby out of wedlock when he is not even around, or smoking a joint? I’m the one who smoked a joint by the way, and I’ve always been considered the bad guy by my stepmother, this other girl’s mother. I think my stepmother has been abusive to me for many years because I smoked a joint. Big deal, I tried drugs, didn’t like them and quit many years ago. I thought I was normal like many people. My stepmother is a bigot and doesn’t think so. She came from an alcoholic family when she remarried my father and is always pointing the finger because I smoked a joint. But her daughter is perfect. I think my stepmother is mean. Her son smoked weed and it was fine for him to smoke weed! She’s a bigot.

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Whats the worse situation you have ever lived in?

  • Posted on September 23, 2010 at 2:18 am

Here’s mine,
Me and my Boyfriend have been living in an illegal apt for the last 2+yrs and our land-lady has a raging Alcoholic Daughter who hasn’t seen a sober day in over 30yrs, her own Mother is afraid of her,and she has been harassing us 4 a while, needless to say she has talked her Mother in to putting us out So now we are looking 4 another place to move.

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What’s worse? Palin’s daughter getting pregnant or Biden’s daughter snorting cocaine?

  • Posted on July 25, 2010 at 2:00 pm

Look’s like Biden’s daughter is caught up in a drug scandal. She was filmed snorting several lines of coke. She even told the guy to make a bigger line.

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/03/world-exclusive-vice-president-biden’s-daughter-caught-cocaine-scandal

Any wagers on the media ignoring this one? They’ll do hour long segments on Palin but turn a blind eye to their favorite gaffe a minute dem.

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For Better Or Worse, Your Kids Need Both Of You

  • Posted on January 9, 2010 at 7:06 pm

Copyright (c) 2009 Lucille Uttermohlen

I had a case today that was very typical. Two divorced parents who generally got along found themselves in court because of their 15 year old daughter. She is a poor student, had some rather unsavory observations on her “My Space” page, and generally has shown herself to be a pain in the nether regions.

The father is one of those people who is so laid back, it is amazing he can stand up. He isn’t a bad guy, just a little distant and self involved. He works 5 nights a week, and is more interested in being a buddy to his kids than a parent. In short, if he gets the custody decision he wants, the daughter’s step-mother will be raising the girl.

The mother is from the old school. She believes her kids should do what they are told, and she monitors their computer and cell phone use. When the daughter lived with her, she had a strict curfew, and could not go out with her friends unless she told her mom where she was going, with whom, and when she’d be back. The daughter wasn’t allowed to date, and most of her social activities had to be approved by Mom beforehand. This may sound strict, but it will also sound familiar to those of us of a certain age.

Judgipoo was not happy with either parent. He felt the father was supporting the child in her disrespectful behavior. He didn’t reveal his deepest thoughts to the mother, but he wasn’t happy with the daughter’s grades when she lived with either parent. He was not interested in hearing the testimony of one of my witnesses to whom daughter dearest tried to sell drugs. In short, he came into court mad, wasn’t too happy when he listened to the parents, and was madder still when the hearing ended. All of the tropical plants in his courtroom were amply steamed, and the lawyer eating snakes went to bed tonight with full bellies.

The sad thing about this situation is that it could have been avoided. The parents apparently talked together about their kids and the behavior they expected from them earlier this year. The daughter announced that she would like to live with her father. The mother was willing to let her do it, thinking that a few weeks of not seeing Dad anymore than she would have during visitation would convince her that she may as well move home.

The daughter found that lack of supervision at Dad’s was a fun thing, and decided she wanted to stay. Throw in the step-sister with driving privileges, and the fact that no one made her do anything she didn’t want to, and it is easy to understand why she did not want to come back to her mother’s more regimented environment.

Dad refused to listen to Mom when she tried to tell him why she didn’t think things were working out. The girl admitted to Mom that she no longer had friends, and that she no longer engaged in the school activities she used to love. Dad testified that the only reason he had brought his custody case was that the “daughter wanted to live with him”. He didn’t know what grade she was in, nor did he know who her friends were, and that she had put her cell phone number on “My Space” where all the little perverts in the world could find it and call her for a nice sexy chat. If she’s lucky, she can have a date with a sex offender in 24 hours or less. Dad would be at work, so he needn’t be the wiser.

Both parents love the daughter. Dad just thinks he is being a good father because the girl relates to him like she does with the rest of the kids in her class. Mom thinks the kid ought to tow the line, and that she should be accountable for her time and attitudes towards people.

They are both right. Kids need to feel they can confide in their parents. There is a lot of confusing influences in today’s high schools, and a kid needs to be confident that the person who is responsible for their well being understands their feelings. However, they also need to be stopped from making choices that are not good for them, and Mom and Dad are the ones who have to guide them in this regard.

When people divorce, they need to forget their feelings towards each other when they are raising their kids. As hard and unpleasant as it can be, they should sit down and discuss what their kids are doing, and what actions they should be taking. Unfortunately, too many kids of divorce end up being parented by judges because the parents can’t agree between themselves what is best for their children. Not only does the court end up deciding where they will live, and how they will be supported, it also ends up having to decide whether the kids should have to go to reform school, or whether their drug use was a one time thing. This fact, more than anything else often results in a disconnect between society and the next generation. This is why divorcing couples should be very careful that living separately doesn’t mean they will no longer parent together.

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