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My boyfriends baby momma is breaking probation, shes in another state, we would like to get custody of the….?

  • Posted on March 20, 2011 at 9:23 pm

baby but her parents are pretty high up in the political latter here. She has driven drunk with the baby(4yrs old) in the car, and the child knows what is going on, thats the worst part. one night she asked who was going to drive them home “mommy drank bad stuff” and this week alone she has spent 1 night with her daughter, the other 6 shes been with the grandmother. should I report her? to help us get custody?

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How much would i have to drink to be over the limit in the morning?

  • Posted on March 19, 2011 at 11:23 pm

I have to take my daughter into a nearby town tomorrow and it’s new years eve tonight and we’re having a party so i plan to drink a fair bit. To drive tomorrow at 8 o’clock and i presumably stop drinking at around 1 in the morning, what is the limit i can drink and still be able to legally drive at 8?

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would you ratherr??

  • Posted on March 19, 2011 at 6:20 am

have a daughter whos had an abortion and is pregnant again?
or a alchoholic meth addicited daughter?
;)
yea. this is a weird question :)
personally, i would pick a son 2.
ahah ;)

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would like to find a support group for parents of drug addicts?

  • Posted on March 10, 2011 at 3:20 pm

i have recently gained custody of my 2 grandchildern because my daughter is addicted to meth. i’ve never dealt with an addict before and am beside myself.

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Would you let your 15 year old daughter to go to a Bring Me the Horizon concert with a bunch of friends?

  • Posted on March 5, 2011 at 8:20 pm

My dad said that I could go, but I HAVE to go with him….apparently I’m not “old enough” to make wise choices and to not do anything bad. (Trust me, I am NOT like that.) He’s really over protective, and quite frankly, I think that I can handle being at a concert with 8 or 9 friends! he doesn’t let me do anything! I’m not going to go into any mosh pits (I’m barely 5’2, and I’m 95 pounds; i’m not stupid)

He’s afraid of me getting “exposed” to bad things (which I have anyway, my stepmom smokes weed in the house, and I don’t live a sheltered life.) as if I haven’t already. (The city we live in has the most meth labs in size comparison to anywhere in the USA.) HAHA.

BMTH is a really heavy screamo band, btw, but there will be other “pansy” bands there. (It’s the taste of chaos) and it’s not like it’s gonna be full of 30 year old men, more like 13 year old “scene” kids. lololol
Trust me on this, my dad will NOT be fun to be around. He will make me stay away from the band, and leave right after it’s over. I won’t even get to get a picture with Oli Sykes!

He’ll just mope and complain and b!!tch about how much my music tastes ”suck”.
Yeah he’s like 47. lololol.

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What would convince you to allow your 16 year old daughter spend the night with boys and girls?

  • Posted on February 27, 2011 at 7:22 pm

Ok, so I will be a junior in high school next year, and my friends throw parties with alcohol. To avoid drinking and driving, people just bring sleeping bags and spend the night wherever the party was hosted.
So, my parents are fine with me drinking alcohol, but they arn’t okay with me spending the night with guys. They are afraid something bad will happen.
But nothing bad does happen. First of all, I would never do anything like that. And second, the guys, besides drinking and occasionally street-racing, are good guys, and none of them would try something.
I try to point this out to my parents, but they are just like well you may thing they won’t, but we don’t know that.
I don’t like lying to my parents, so what could I do to change their minds?

Also, please, if you arn’t going to answer the question I asked, don’t bother answering. I will just ignore “you should wait until you’re older to drink” type responses.
And don’t assume things about me and my parents. My parents are amazing, even if they are stricter than I wish sometimes. And I am a good person even if I do drink occasionally. I have all As or A-s in school, and my teachers like me. I’m not the stereotypical “bad kid” image that people sometimes think of with underage drinking.

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If you had proof that a former bosses underage child was driving stoned and drinking, would you tell?

  • Posted on February 25, 2011 at 1:23 am

I stumbled across my former boss’s 16 year old daughter’s myspace page. She states on her profile that she spends her time smoking weed, and there are several pictures of her smoking a pipe, drinking beer, and behind the wheel stoned and laughing about it. Should I tell her dad, or should I just mind my own business?
My old boss and I aren’t “talk every day” kind of friends, but I left on excellent terms, and we have a cordial relationship.
Okay, so I sent him an email, and he replied “I checked it out, and didn’t see anything that bad. Get ready, it happens. She’s graduating a year early at the top of her class”….

I tried…

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how would you approach this? My eight year old daughter…?

  • Posted on February 13, 2011 at 1:21 am

She is beautiful, intelligent, kind and accepting,extremely outspoken and opinionated. I am blessed. She has been thru more than she should have, being taken from me two years ago due to a very bad drug addiction…lives with her father and step mother, they provide physically but not much emotionally.I have just recently regained unsupervised visitation and everything is finally becoming a little more normal to her, bless her heart.. She has been very strong, and I know she holds so much inside of her.She visited with me this weekend, she opens up to me about everything…. she doesn’t tell her dad much b/c his past reactions have been hurtful to her. nightmares and he said she better go back to sleep or else. no comforting, just very hard, I know him, I was married to him.This weekend, she asked me…. mama, is it wrong to feel like you want to kick somebody in the face”she was angry, about to cry. the situation is with a girl at school who she says is “popular” but “mean”
I’ve listened and understand of course this situation… it happens at this age, with girls…it’s normal I know. Of course I want to go take care of the situation myself…. in a not so nice way…. that’s not an option obviously. I hurt for my lil girl, and although I know this is something she will face… It’s really bothering her deep down I think more than normal… I think it may be more than this lil girl, I think my daughter is just feeling all that she’s kept inside of her…. I don’t know what to do, please any advise you can give. She goes to a private school with a very “upper class” reputation…. I am glad she is able to attend there… but she doesn’t have a snobby bone in her body, and thus doesnt’ understand someone who is just unkind. I have told her to either ignore this girl, or to smile at her and continue to be friendly… that’s easy to say though, for her to do it, that’s tough. she has so many friends. I want to be what a mother should be in this situation.
Bobby K– If I didn’t have a limit on the number of words in my question I may have come across differently…. yes, I am extremely thankful to him… and he does know that, he’s a wonderful father… and yes… I did choose drugs over my child, I admit that…. but everyday for the past two years of my life I have chosen my child over drugs, I cannot undo my past, but I have gotten up and moved forward, maybe you don’t understand that… but that’s not my problem, and not my question either. My daughter growing up and doing drugs because she wants to be like her mother…. I pray every day that my past can help me in the influence that I now have in her life. I know what guilt feels like, I deal with it every single day… thoughts come into my mind that sound a he*l of alot like your answer… I want to be there for her, I do work “with” her father and he does work “with” me. We are very different, neither of us better than the other. it’s not about “us” it’s about “her”.
thinkpos… — Superficial child??? I’m confused

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All the Moms out there: What would you do if you found out your 13 year old daughter was prostituting?

  • Posted on February 8, 2011 at 1:22 pm

Okay, I saw a Tyra episode about a girl who was only 13 years old when she first started prostituting. She said she wanted new things, like clothes and accessories, and didn’t want to ask her mother or step father for money(she knew they were having a hard time, money-wise.)
She couldn’t get a job, mainly because she’s only 13, the only job she could get was baby-sitting, and she thought it’d be better to get 150 dollars for 5 minutes, rather than $6.50 an hour. She set up meets on an online chatting site. She said she had sex with perhaps 15 men, but they were repeating. She told them she was 19, I personally don’t think they believed, but wanted the sex so bad. Later, she told them she was only 13, but they continued to come back. She stopped buying clothes and things for herself, and started spending it on(somehow)getting cocaine.
What would you do, mothers, in this situation? If you found out, whether it be you were snooping through her phone, or online.
Oh, uh, sorry, fellas.
She’s actually 14, I fought the video on Youtube(I watched it as a rerun on my TV)
And she was sneaking out at night, so her mom and stepdad was sleeping.
Here’s the link the episode —-> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fx3SrhmqOtQ

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Do you know of any medicine that would stop my father from being alcoholic?

  • Posted on February 6, 2011 at 4:17 pm

I’d just like to salvage his liver..
please….
tnx,
distressed daughter

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