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My husband says if I’d have went with him, he wouldn’t have got so drunk…?

  • Posted on March 25, 2011 at 11:24 am

I know I’m now his babysitter, and I have responsibilities at the house (he wanted me to bring our child with us when she needed to do schoolwork). He made his choices, and I made mine. I chose to not go to my family’s get together because of my prior commitments for the past weekend. I suspect there being something mixed in with his drinks or that there was a bad reaction with his medications, he says he drank a lot more than he remembered drinking after calling someone else who was there. I still don’t trust the situation. The guy could have been telling him that he went off alone with someone else or did something else, but my husband told me supposedly what the guy said. If my husband was accurately truthful, then all he did was he went out for a long time on a bad note with me. To me, that is not faithfulness and comittment to the marriage and our family and our plans we had which we ditched. He says he is sorry. He had me worried about him and I thought he could have alcohol poisoning or something else, which is serious, and also especially since I did not know where he was and could not come pick his sorry but up and check on the situation to make sure if a promiscuous woman was taking advantage of him or not or if he was acting wrong otherwise. I don’t think I could have stopped him even if I had been there, or even if I had made ultimatums before he left. He has had another time years ago he left me stranded at a hotel for I don’t know how many hours while he was supposedly test driving the car for problems. He supposedly went to his partying relatives house (in the daytime). But I still have suspicions that something else may have gone on, even if he did go to those particular relatives. I didn’t want him to put me in another situation and worse to involve our daughter with seeing a bunch of drunks or people cursing and stuff…..
My questions are these: Do you think I did anything wrong by not going with him and by not getting myself and our child stuck in this situation with him? Do you think he is right that he would not have gotten so messed up if I had been there with our child? And can you understand (even if you don’t agree) how I see this as being not faithfully committed to the family, even if he was accurately truthful and did not do something sexual with another woman?
Sorry this is so long, but please try to read before answering….

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my wife wouldn’t let me see my daughter so got a court order for custody.?

  • Posted on November 23, 2010 at 1:22 pm

the cops went to my wife’s work an served her, they followed her to where my daughter was . she was at a crack house where three guys were watching her.my daughter was acting funny so i had her drug tested. she tested positive for cocaine she’s only 16 monthes old. will this affect her the rest of her life? 16 monthes and already introduced to drugs and my wife doesn’t have to do supervised visits
she had my daughter for 3 weeks .the drug testing lady said it could have been on a table and my daughter could have gotten into it or they could have been blowing smoke in my daughters face

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