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Father ‘yanks’ daughter away from mother.. they’re separated…?

  • Posted on November 12, 2010 at 1:22 pm

So a good girl friend of mine is going through the beginning stages of a divorce with her husband and they have a 3 year old daughter. Actually tomorrow is their daughter’s 3rd birthday.
The husband has a history of anger and infidelity. They’ve been married two years but have been together for 4 or 5. The mother, my friend, isn’t the nicest cookie in the box either but she’s always been faithful and supportive towards her husband, despite what he’s done to her physically and emotionally. Compared to him she’s a saint. And I’m not saying this because she’s my friend, he’d actually been my friend before she ever was, so I’m not being bias.
A few weeks ago my friend told me she’d been planning to leave her husband because she was fed up with it all, and she’d come to have feelings for his friend and their neighbor. She told the neighbor how she felt and he felt the same way so she’d prepared to tell her husband she wanted a separation. She never did anything physically with the neighbor, they both wanted to wait until she’d left her husband.
A few days later, she and her husband had been arguing so she came over to my house to relax and get away from him until things calmed down. He ended up showing up at my place because he needed to get his credit cards from her, while he was waiting for her to get them out of her wallet, he took her phone saying, “I’ll take this with me too since you can’t answer it and I pay for it.” So she told him she wasn’t giving him his cards until he gave her the phone. He didn’t give her the phone and he left. In the phone were text messages she had sent the neighbor she’d fallen for that gave everything away, that gave away she’d wanted to leave her husband for him in particular. He saw the text messages and immediately showed back up at my house and began pounding on the door. At this point my friend knew he’d seen them and she was already upset and she told me not to let him in because he’d “beat the shit out of her.” So I didn’t, I told him through the door that I couldn’t let him in and I apologized but he’d have to handle this somewhere else (I have a 10 month old baby so I wouldn’t have let him in regardless for my child’s safety.)
Over the past few weeks they’ve been separated and been splitting time with their daughter pretty fairly. Until today, apparently. Her husband had been upset over an argument they got into earlier today so he came to their house (my friend had been staying at the house with their daughter while he stayed at his grandmother’s.) She and their daughter were taking a shower when he showed up, he came in the bathroom, “yanked” their daughter out of the shower, and left with her still naked, no diaper on or anything. Put her in his truck, locked the door and drove off nearly running my friend over on the way out.
Is there anything my friend can do? She’d filed for temporary custody but the paper work had not gone through.
A few minutes later my friend got a phone call from a deputy saying that her husband had called saying that she’d been abusing their daughter which is COMPLETELY untrue. Based on the kind of person he is, this is something her husband would do to make it harder for her to get their daughter back.
Also her husband is emotionally unstable, and I’m not sure HOW much it is, but he’s been involving himself in cocaine and various painkillers and marijuana.

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Father ‘yanks’ daughter away from mother.. they’re separated…?

  • Posted on November 11, 2010 at 1:21 pm

So a good girl friend of mine is going through the beginning stages of a divorce with her husband and they have a 3 year old daughter. Actually tomorrow is their daughter’s 3rd birthday.
The husband has a history of anger and infidelity. They’ve been married two years but have been together for 4 or 5. The mother, my friend, isn’t the nicest cookie in the box either but she’s always been faithful and supportive towards her husband, despite what he’s done to her physically and emotionally. Compared to him she’s a saint. And I’m not saying this because she’s my friend, he’d actually been my friend before she ever was, so I’m not being bias.
A few weeks ago my friend told me she’d been planning to leave her husband because she was fed up with it all, and she’d come to have feelings for his friend and their neighbor. She told the neighbor how she felt and he felt the same way so she’d prepared to tell her husband she wanted a separation. She never did anything physically with the neighbor, they both wanted to wait until she’d left her husband.
A few days later, she and her husband had been arguing so she came over to my house to relax and get away from him until things calmed down. He ended up showing up at my place because he needed to get his credit cards from her, while he was waiting for her to get them out of her wallet, he took her phone saying, “I’ll take this with me too since you can’t answer it and I pay for it.” So she told him she wasn’t giving him his cards until he gave her the phone. He didn’t give her the phone and he left. In the phone were text messages she had sent the neighbor she’d fallen for that gave everything away, that gave away she’d wanted to leave her husband for him in particular. He saw the text messages and immediately showed back up at my house and began pounding on the door. At this point my friend knew he’d seen them and she was already upset and she told me not to let him in because he’d “beat the shit out of her.” So I didn’t, I told him through the door that I couldn’t let him in and I apologized but he’d have to handle this somewhere else (I have a 10 month old baby so I wouldn’t have let him in regardless for my child’s safety.)
Over the past few weeks they’ve been separated and been splitting time with their daughter pretty fairly. Until today, apparently. Her husband had been upset over an argument they got into earlier today so he came to their house (my friend had been staying at the house with their daughter while he stayed at his grandmother’s.) She and their daughter were taking a shower when he showed up, he came in the bathroom, “yanked” their daughter out of the shower, and left with her still naked, no diaper on or anything. Put her in his truck, locked the door and drove off nearly running my friend over on the way out.
Is there anything my friend can do? She’d filed for temporary custody but the paper work had not gone through.
A few minutes later my friend got a phone call from a deputy saying that her husband had called saying that she’d been abusing their daughter which is COMPLETELY untrue. Based on the kind of person he is, this is something her husband would do to make it harder for her to get their daughter back.
Also her husband is emotionally unstable, and I’m not sure HOW much it is, but he’s been involving himself in cocaine and various painkillers and marijuana.

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