I’ve been married for two years. I got married bc I decided I needed to be the best father I can be for my daughter who is now 3. My wife was hanging out with another man at work and the gym about a year ago and wanted to leave me. I said OK bye and she came back and begged me to stay and I gave in. She said they never kissed or had relations. She then set out on a mission to get pregnant again and we had another child who is 2 months now. I am very unhappy in my home but my children are very important to me, the reason I married is bc we broke up before and I couldn’t see my children bc she told the court i was a heroin addict, a totally false accusation and called the cops and said i beat her. I don’t know what to do bc I love my children and i feel like as long as i’m here i protect them from her and her families craziness, but i also would like to have a life i enjoy. any advice would be helpful.
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This sounds like a chaotic situation – time for damage control. At this point in the relationship (after she has already had the cops and courts involved) it’s time to move on. Is she mentally stable? If not, that’s grounds for custody in your favor. Bottom line the amount of drama that seems to be going on in your household isn’t good for your kids. If you have the means to provide for yourself and your two children then by all means you should move out and move on. Do you have close family or friends that you can depend on?
It sounds like that’s what you’re thinking about doing, so follow your gut.